Wednesday, April 30, 2008

STARGIRL

hey,
i'm looking out for my stargirl,
my intergalactic connection.........Mcfly(Stargirl)

this words probably suit me now.... ijust woke up. i didn't know what to do, my brother woke me uo so early. and when i asked him why he woke me , he said he didn
t know. WHat?.. another time to sleep wasted..

anyway back to the lyrics. well, it seems that i've reached that point where i am to find a girl, again WHAT? well i really need a companion right now, kinda like a partner. i couldn't let a guy be my companion, that would be just gay, wouldn't it?

"recently i've been,
hopelessly reaching,
out for this girl,
who's out of this world,
believe me.
she got a boyfriend,
he drives her around,
he's 23,
he's in the marine,
he'd kill me?" (Mcfly(Obviously)

i am gonna write another post on my favourite topic, that is LOVE. huh. what a crappy subject but it is inevitable to all of us, except for my friend nazwan(don't know why he is Anti-girl) love isn't just about boy and girl love, its about love all around, love for your parent, love for your family, love for your pet even. some people just don't understand love. i recently learned about relationship in class, and it touched a little bit on love. there are about 6 types of love(according to some guy who did the research in the 70's i think)

JOHN LEE(1976)
EROS
-a passionate love, usually involves a lot of physical and emotional things, it is love based on esthetic enjoyment

LUDUS
-a player, or playboy/playgirl. love is like a sport. no emotions are involve, a lot of physical going on here....

STORGE
-affectionate love. it starts from friendship. not a really good kind of love

PARAGMA
-practical love. love to these kind is like a professional connection. this love always ends in divorce(sadly)

MANIA
-an obsession love. they are desperate to be loved. they would love everybody. they got their hearts on the sleeves. have a low self esteem.

AGAPE
-Compassionate love. lovers are willing to sacrifice themselves for their lover. this is the titanic love.(which i personally think is stupid)

these are the type of love that generally happens in this . generally. well i haven't touched yet on unrequited love, or as i like to call it EMO-LOve(just sad, and kinda gay) i'l leave this to another topic on my next post so see ya'll

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing it's best, night and day, to make you everybody else, means to fight the hardest battle, which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting."

E.E Cummings

4 comments:

Garlicum said...

Yo Joe..I like the STORGE one..love from a friendship is really nice. Why you said it's not good? I disagree. You really know the person you love best..if it's successful, I think it'll be great.

Well, it's just an idealist opinion of mine. I don't think it'll have no problems though.

Guilt of Innocences said...

kay.... friendship is a great way to start love but, imagine living with someone you already know, theres no stuff that you don't know about the person you love, its okay if you're just girlfriend boyfriend, but imagine marrying your best friend... its not like those love movies, its terrible.. you don't talk a lot with your partner, and that can cause a tension in your marriages..... that is why friendship before love is terrible...... but i respect your opinion, althought its kinda sad... really sad...

Garlicum said...

Well, I'm an idealist after all...but not all STORGE-type love will go down the pit really. You're just being pessimistic.

Guilt of Innocences said...

wtever man..... i don't care....i don't beleive in that stuff anyway